I don't have an issue with breaking the 4th wall, but the viewer/reader is asked to pretend they're peering into another reality that for the sake of pretend exists.
Thinking of that concetpt as a i watch/read/ the explanation for 4th wall breaking in theory would be some sort of in-between dimension or reality. If the viewer is supposed to believe Jen is driving a car while at the same time talking to the viewer with her hands off the wheel, then the conclusion i draw is that both those things are happening, but in different realities/diminutions.
The same rules ap;ply to Deadpool and i don't know why people keep insisting that I'm saying they don't. I've said several times this rule applies to characters talking to the viewer or reader. I came up with this concept reading comic books 20 years ago and had never even read a she-hulk comic.
It was while reading spider-man comics and seeing him narrating that made me wonder, wait, if the reader is to pretend this comic is another reality, then how is Peter Parker talking to the reader?
This has nothing to do with gender or the character she hulk. It's just how i explain the phenomenon of the character interacting with the audience. I don't know why people are so offended by new concepts.
The MCU is full of new concepts, but people act if I've run over their puppy if i dare even speak a concept, they're not familiar with. If nerds can't share weird theories on a site called Fandom, then why is it even called that?