I would do release order:

Daredevil Season 1

Jessica Jones Season 1

Daredevil Season 2

Luke Cage Season 1

Iron Fist Season 1

The Defenders

The Punisher Season 1

Jessica Jones Season 2

Luke Cage Season 2

Iron Fist Season 2

Daredevil Season 3

The Punisher Season 2

Jessica Jones Season 3

Release order and chronological order are pretty much the same, so go with that

BRO EVERYONE HAS FORGOT ABOUT CLOAK AND DAGGER

^Cloak & Dagger is not a Netflix series lol

Nor the InHumans, but is anyone mentioning that mess of a show :)